What if rebuilding trust isn't primarily about convincing someone to believe you? What if trust is not a thinking problem at all? What if trust is actually a nervous system problem? Understanding this one idea can completely change how you approach rebuilding trust in your relationship.

Maybe they're quieter than usual. Maybe they're irritable, withdrawn, overwhelmed, or emotionally distant. Perhaps you've tried encouraging them, fixing things for them, or offering advice, only to find that nothing seems to help. If this sounds familiar, you're not alone.